A Time & A Season

Hey Dudes and Divas,

Since turning 28 I feel so appreciative for things I have and long for the things I once had. Sometimes you realize things that mattered to you once before no longer matter.

Let me know if you have ever felt the way this song describes. This is where I am now. There is so much more to LIFE than the little stuff.

Love is a wonderful thing. It can sometimes be blind, caring, kind, and frustrating. What it should be is SELFLESS. If you realize you are being SELFISH in a relationship be it Romantic or Friends make a effort to evaluate what it is that you want in that relationship and if it is all about you then it is not really LOVE at all.

We need to begin to learn how to Love and it is not something that is not easy to Learn if you have never experienced it.

One thing that may help is to read 1 Cor 13 in the Bible. This chapter is all about Love.

Love does not Hurt! Allow your self to FEEL.

This is my therapy and I hope it helps someone else. I also realized that even though it may hurt and you maybe scared it is better to let people know how you feel. This should be done in a positive /constructive way of course, but it is something that will be able to help you grow as a person. This doesn't mean you just say whatever you feel but if you notice that someone is contently putting you in a compromising position you should let them know how you feel. We should not allow ourselves to be taken for granted. You are not a Doormat that is not LOVE.

Love is about compromise.

Think about what is important to you and if what you are doing will help you reach the end result.

Open yourself up to Life's possibilities.

Do not focus on regret for the experience or time spent on people, places or things that may no longer seem important. EVERYTHING IS A LEARNING EXPERIENCE.

Peace,

Ms. Mil